Monday May 14, 2012

Today I decided to pick a card from the Ask Your Guides deck and the card I picked is It’s Not Personal.  The message for someone reading this is…..you may have a disagreement or tension with someone at this time….its important for you to understand that whatever is going on has nothing to do with you.

You could easily over-think whatever is going on….driving yourself crazy trying to figure out what the other person meant by what they said….where its coming from…..why its happening.  Don’t worry about it….realize whatever they are saying or doing has to do with them and their experience….not yours.

Rather than defending yourself and getting into it….don’t let it escalate….don’t engage.  If they need to get something off their chest….that’s fine….but don’t let it get to you.  Choose the path of peace and free yourself from the burden of worrying about other people’s problems.

People often say things they don’t mean, fly off the handle when they are under pressure, they lash out when there is really nothing behind it….its just tension and pressure causing the emotional release.

In situations like this its important to set your boundaries, draw the line, energetically protect yourself by not holding on to lower thoughts or words that fly by…..again….its not your stuff and you don’t need it.  Let it all pass and everything will be fine.  You are better off keeping your mouth shut…..say….”okay….I hear what you’re saying and understand”…..and then let it go and move on.  You will be much better off and it will defuse the situation.

I will be back tomorrow with another card reading of the day…..enjoy your Monday!!!