Monday June 4, 2012

Today I decided to pick a card from the Daily Guidance from Your Angels deck and the card I picked is Relationship.  The message for someone reading this is…..if you are currently in a relationship….make the effort right now to invest in it.

You may be caught up in your day to day life….distracted by work and other things….not putting much of an effort into the relationship.  Its easy to get into a sort of rut this way…..becoming a little too comfortable leading to laziness in the relationship.

In order to keep the spark alive….put some effort into it….don’t blame the other person for any stale energy in your relationship…..don’t wait for the other person to make a move.  Take matters into your own hands to create the relationship you want.  Schedule a date night….do something special and out of the ordinary.  Make a list of all the things you love about the person (instead of focusing on the negative) and share your appreciation in a unique way with your partner.

You don’t have to be in a rut….you can turn things around.   Yes….relationships are a two-way street….but it takes action on your part.  Be grateful for the love you have….focus on it and you will feel invigorated by it.

If you are not in a relationship….take time to experience self-love….you need to love yourself before you can love others.  Focus on your positive characteristics…..make a list of things you love and appreciate about yourself.  Do not criticize  yourself….don’t judge yourself.

Make a date with yourself to feed your spirit and do something you love….you don’t need anyone else to make you happy…..experience the joy of having yourself and being with yourself….the more you can find the love for yourself within….the more love you will radiate out to others….and in turn… will come back to you!

I will be back tomorrow with another card of the day…..have a great Monday!!!